This section was designed to be a place where dislikes about ones MOTHER-MOM can freely be expressed. We are raised not to speak negatively about our moms, even though it could be true. On the other hand it is ok to speak that way about dad, in many circles to talk about ones mother can get you in a fight.
We want to stick to real mother issues like, the mother who uses bad language, the mother who drinks, or God forbid other substances. The mom, who tries to keep up with her peers, therefore always presenting herself bigger than she really is, the selfish mom, the mom who manipulates your dad.
We must remember many of the current day psychological problems of young men are rooted in some of these early negative behaviors by their mothers, it can create problems for them with women in general. Does she remind you of similar behaviors your mom had? These very issues if not resolved, and or talked about, can be a life long problem for some men, that is, until they received some kind of counseling and or therapy This is where in so many cases men start to understand their problems with the opposite sex.
May 24th 2022 in Uvalde, Texas, Salvador Rolando Ramos, 18 years old, fatally shot 19 children and 2 adults, our prayers go out to the families of those children it is no way can I fully understand what those family members are going through. In the spirit of "BEFORE THE ABUSE" we would like to discuss how an 18 year old got to this state of mind. We are by know means experts in psychology, however we can see patterns that can develope in a child's mind that can lead to adverse behavior maybe not to this extreme but enough to disrupt a child's mental growth.
We like to explore why he shot his grandmother first? Why was he living with his grandmother? internet information says he and his mother were having problems so he went to live with his grandmother? No I don't think an argument over a phone bill caused him to shoot her. Did his mother know what he was capable of? probably not, the only problem he didn't develop the mind set he had at his grandmother's house, so we must speak about his home life with his mother in the first 15 or 16 years of his life BEFORE he got to his grand mothers house, before he killed innocent children and hoping to be killed. It was mentioned that he called his mother a "B" in front of some police officers, why did he have so much anger for his mom? was he upset because she kicked him out of the house? how could an 18 year old build that much hate?
So in the Spirit of "Before The Abuse"
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